The Pi journal showed 170 000 'upstream silent NxN' messages within one
second — i.e. ReceiveJsonAsync was returning null in zero time, so the
upstream WS to OpenAI was closed. The relay was spinning until idle
watchdog (30 s) fired. Add IRealtimeUpstream.IsClosed + CloseReason,
populated by OpenAIRealtimeUpstream from the close status / WS exception,
and have PumpAsync stop on close and forward
error code=upstream_closed message=close status=<X> desc=<Y>
to the device. Closes the spin AND gives us the OpenAI close reason.
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