Diagnostics: surface upstream WS close reason + break the null-spin loop

The Pi journal showed 170 000 'upstream silent NxN' messages within one
second — i.e. ReceiveJsonAsync was returning null in zero time, so the
upstream WS to OpenAI was closed. The relay was spinning until idle
watchdog (30 s) fired. Add IRealtimeUpstream.IsClosed + CloseReason,
populated by OpenAIRealtimeUpstream from the close status / WS exception,
and have PumpAsync stop on close and forward
  error code=upstream_closed message=close status=<X> desc=<Y>
to the device. Closes the spin AND gives us the OpenAI close reason.

backend/DeviceHub/DeviceHubEndpoint.cs

@@ -179,7 +179,7 @@ public static class DeviceHubEndpoint
 
     // Bump on every backend change so we can verify a Coolify deploy landed
     // by looking at the hello_ack config.server_version field in the Pi journal.
-    public const string ServerVersion = "plan3-debug-2026-06-12-09";
+    public const string ServerVersion = "plan3-debug-2026-06-12-09-closeprobe";
 
     private static async Task SendHelloAckAsync(ActiveDevice active, Device device, CancellationToken ct)
     {

backend/Realtime/IRealtimeUpstream.cs

@@ -6,4 +6,8 @@ public interface IRealtimeUpstream : IAsyncDisposable
 {
     Task SendJsonAsync(JsonObject envelope, CancellationToken ct);
     Task<JsonObject?> ReceiveJsonAsync(CancellationToken ct);
+    // Once a receive returns null because the WebSocket transitioned out of
+    // the Open state, these surface why. Both stay null until that happens.
+    bool IsClosed { get; }
+    string? CloseReason { get; }
 }

backend/Realtime/OpenAIRealtimeUpstream.cs

@@ -7,6 +7,10 @@ namespace backend.Realtime;
 public class OpenAIRealtimeUpstream : IRealtimeUpstream
 {
     private readonly ClientWebSocket _ws = new();
+    private string? _closeReason;
+
+    public bool IsClosed => _ws.State != WebSocketState.Open && _ws.State != WebSocketState.Connecting;
+    public string? CloseReason => _closeReason;
 
     public async Task ConnectAsync(string apiKey, string model, CancellationToken ct)
     {
@@ -31,11 +35,27 @@ public class OpenAIRealtimeUpstream : IRealtimeUpstream
         while (true)
         {
             WebSocketReceiveResult result;
-            try { result = await _ws.ReceiveAsync(buffer, ct); }
-            catch (WebSocketException) { return null; }
-            catch (OperationCanceledException) { return null; }
+            try
+            {
+                result = await _ws.ReceiveAsync(buffer, ct);
+            }
+            catch (WebSocketException exc)
+            {
+                _closeReason ??= $"WebSocketException:{exc.WebSocketErrorCode}:{exc.Message}";
+                return null;
+            }
+            catch (OperationCanceledException)
+            {
+                return null;
+            }
 
-            if (result.MessageType == WebSocketMessageType.Close) return null;
+            if (result.MessageType == WebSocketMessageType.Close)
+            {
+                var status = _ws.CloseStatus?.ToString() ?? "<none>";
+                var desc = _ws.CloseStatusDescription ?? "<no description>";
+                _closeReason ??= $"close status={status} desc={desc}";
+                return null;
+            }
             stream.Write(buffer, 0, result.Count);
             if (result.EndOfMessage)
             {

backend/Realtime/RealtimeSession.cs

@@ -128,9 +128,25 @@ public class RealtimeSession
             if (evt is null && ct.IsCancellationRequested) return;
             if (evt is null)
             {
-                // Upstream has gone silent. Surface that to the device every
-                // ~2s so we can tell "OpenAI is up but emitting nothing" from
-                // "the upstream WS was closed" — Coolify logs aren't reachable.
+                // If the upstream WS is closed, stop spinning — surface the
+                // close reason to the device and bail with EndReason=Error.
+                if (_upstream.IsClosed)
+                {
+                    var reason = _upstream.CloseReason ?? "upstream closed";
+                    _logger.LogWarning("upstream closed mid-session: {Reason}", reason);
+                    await _output.WriteEnvelopeAsync(new JsonObject
+                    {
+                        ["type"] = "error",
+                        ["code"] = "upstream_closed",
+                        ["message"] = reason,
+                        ["fatal"] = false,
+                    }, ct);
+                    _endReason = EndReason.Error;
+                    return;
+                }
+                // Surface "alive but silent" every ~2s so we can tell that
+                // from "the upstream WS was closed". Coolify logs aren't
+                // reachable from the dev sandbox.
                 if (++nullPolls % 8 == 0)
                 {
                     _logger.LogInformation("upstream silent ({Polls} x 250ms polls)", nullPolls);